The Torah teaches us how to tell our children of the miracle of Exodus four times, and each time our instructions are different. The traditional Haggadah understands this to mean that these are many types of children who need to be taught in many different ways. As we learn more as a society about the many, many learning styles of children and adults, the wisdom of the Sages becomes clearer and clearer.
So, how should we teach different types of children about hunger and food justice?
THE WICKED CHILD
The wicked child understands that others go hungry, but chooses not to care. This child is selfish and mocks others who choose to be kind. This child says, “So what?!” and “That’s not my problem.” To this child you should say, “We are all responsible for one another. No-one can be free until all of us are free.” THE COMPLACENT CHILD
The complacent child may knows about hunger, but does the bare minimum to stop it. This child brings cans to a food drive once a year at school when asked, and forgets those in need the other 364 days of the year. This child says, “There, I’ve done enough.” To this child you should say, “Thank you for what you have done. There are still people who go hungry every day. How can we help them every day, and not just when we are asked?”
THE CHILD WHO DOES NOT NEED TO ASK
There is a child who cannot “learn about hunger and food justice” because this child has always known - this is the child who never has enough to eat. This child asks, “Why do I feel so tired and have headaches all the time? Why is it so hard for me to learn and behave myself in school? Why do others have food when I go hungry?” To this child, you should say: “It is not your fault - it is because the world has not shown you justice. Today, let me help you with a meal - and tomorrow, let me commit to the fight for a better world where no child should feel how you feel.”
THE WISE CHILD
The wise child knows that a warm meal can ease the pangs of hunger for a moment, but that they will soon return. This child understands that hunger is just one face of poverty, and that hunger will always exist so long as there are people deprived of opportunities, homes, and healthcare. This child asks: “How can grown-ups allow for a world where anyone goes hungry, even for a day? No matter how big the changes would have to be to stop it, I don’t want to grow up in a world that’s so unfair.” To this child you should say, “Together, let’s learn what we can do to change society forever. Let’s follow the lead of people who have known poverty and hunger themselves, who know the problems and solutions best. Together, you and I will help them change the world so no child ever goes hungry again.”
- Izzy Waxman and Grant Goodman, 2021
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